Setting priorities as a caregiver can be difficult. New issues arise daily that demand our attention as we care for our loved. This can leave the caregiver bewilder and wondering what to do next.
Setting priorities was an afterthought in my journey of care giving. First came the terminal diagnosis, followed by decisions of what treatments my dad should pursue, and more doctor visits added to an already busy routine.
I vividly remember the night my dad needed to go to the ER. He was having trouble breathing. My two boys had a friend spending the night. At the time my husband worked nights. My dad and I jumped in the car and made the 40 minute drive to the ER in 30 minutes. The boys had strict instructions not to break anything while I was gone. My prayer was that all would be well—At home, and for my dad.
Sometimes priorities are made for us. Making sure my dad was okay by going to the ER was the priority.
Some priorities can be thought out. What can you do to carve out some serenity in your care giving?
Caregiver Priorities
- Start the day with prayer–My care giving experience was steeped in prayer. God ushered me through the difficult experience one day at a time.
- Limit what you can on your already full plate–house work may no longer be a priority. Clean what you can in ten minutes instead of the whole house. Clean a little bit daily.
- Tending your loved one takes priority and takes time–plan by adding extra time and going at a slower pace.
- Simplify meals–Add a salad night.
- Ask for help
- Make your own health a priority so you can continue caring for your loved one.
- Get outside in the sunshine daily
- Get some exercise
Simplifying life is a priority when care giving. See my page for Caregivers on my blog site and download a copy of Self Care suggestions for the Caregiver
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